The mediation session is usually scheduled for the morning when everyone is fresh and is restricted to two hours. The emotional demands of the negotiation make limiting the time necessary. When more time is required additional sessions are scheduled.
The mediator has received and reviewed the questionnaire which
expedites the process. Utilizing a checklist the mediator leads the parties through a discussion of the issues that is designed to bring to full agreement all 26 of the issues usually necessary for divorce.
Included in the discussion would be disposition of the house, retirement plans and investments, evaluation of businesses, household goods, personal property, separate property, conservatorship, domicile, child support, spousal maintenance, possession and visitation plans, and more.
Both joint sessions and caucus are available.
When verbal agreement has been achieved to the satisfaction of both parties, the mediator will take a few days and draft a written proposed Mediated Settlement Agreement.
In a subsequent meeting, the parties and the mediator will read and
discuss the document and make any changes desired by both parties.
When the settlement document is satisfactory to both parties, they will take it home for reflection and counsel by family and attorney