The greatest and most long lasting benefit of Divorce Mediation, when facilitated by us, is the reduction of acrimony, pain, bitterness, blame, shame, and quarreling.
There is no profit in resentment and bitterness. Those dark stains taint our attitude and our future co-parenting relationship.
We encourage our clients to gaze forward not dwell on anyone’s past mistakes. Continued bitterness not only undermines the emotional health of the spouses, it will also leave permanent scars on the children.
Studies show that 32% of the children of divorce have long-term emotional damage. We offer ideas to avoid that.
Divorce mediation is not about winning or achieving victories at the other person’s expense.
It is about compromising and finding a settlement that both parties think is fair. This sense of fairness leads to a future co-parenting relationship where peace and harmony can return.
Time is your ally: there can be a wonderful life after divorce.